And it really screwed with his energy. He's the only successful man I've ever met who thinks of his impact on others as a harm. Actually if we can't get him to resolve that he will fail and we will have to sort out a lot worse. He used to have much more diverse offspring like Sweet Potato's still color consistent but of every type otherwise reflecting the mother.
Part of working this out is working out the shaman, but since she is obviously back on the path and progressing as she should I think we are all going to be ok. Though she should have had more insight and communication skills back in the day to not have gotten us all into this mess, and as a result is stuck with the form Attila gave her in his self restricting state.