I don't understand your sexuality at all. I only notice it. In the east, a high ranking man regards the sexuality of a low ranking woman similar to that of an animal. To have sex with her would be to harm her, and would in addition not be interesting.
In the west, having sex with low ranking women is seen as safer than having sex with high ranking women and possibly more interesting.
This is a fundamental incompatability that if the west cant control, will be controlled for them by the east because although our high ranking women are having sex with high ranking men, it is not at the expense of our status or dignity, and while you percieve all non western women as low ranking women, we have a full awareness that your sexualization of us is only due to a lack of perception of our rank and not of an apriciation for what we are.