Ok, now that after San Francisco, everyone knows what your blind spot is, you need to understand that you have support in this country beyond your wife's family, but you may not know exactly what we look like.
The Toltecs arent a free tribe. The leadership is absolutely devoid of enslavement, but we are a minority. The others are devided into different distinct tribal identities that though they have different apearances are organized hierarchically.
Your wife's tribe is more like Cherokees who are multidirectional polysuportive.
Tolecs have adapted Japanese and Chinese techinques because they are hierachical also. Unfortunately the Chinese idom translates to something like portapotty, even though that really hasnt been done much in that way since the Song dinasty, the same technology is being used for descreet messengers who cant be questioned.
You need to give some of these people a low ranking roll somewhere and dont consult them, just give them shlepping jobs and dont tell them anything.
