Our family has stoped trying to hide the state of our women from other women. As we believe islam is the right religion we know that Allah inteded our form to be as we are. We do not keep everythign allah sends us with. Things like extra arms and fingers are considered messages to the midwife or our mothers and gifts to children who are not complete as they can be used to repair things that they are concieved not to have, but as long as a baby can pee and poop we do nothing to their genitalia at all. It is usually obvious early on what gender a child is, especially if they are legitmately concived as each family will have some idea of what is what in their own family, but in the cases of unknown conceptions some exploratory surgery is required to determine if there are nuts, and if there are then we have a boy.
We will not hide this from muslims. You who have been reading for a while have come to understand we can make people do things. So those of you who claim to be muslim but think you can rule on issues like these against people who can clearly give birth and who act in no way like men, you will never know an end of war until you arent who you are now.