So Attila is traditionally colored and so are all his offspring even though he is my son and he has offspring by me. The reason for this is that the darker traits are dominant and he makes no viable sperm with the lighter traits from some mysterious reasons hidden in the depths of men. Sweet Potato also didn't have any lighter colored offspring, at least regarding hair or eyes but his offspring is still more diverse and more capable of mingling with the mother than Attila's. For this reason Attila's offspring are encouraged to take mates from the lines of lighter colored men who have lighter colored phenotypes, even if its a traditional girl of the really needs to be on the steppes because anywhere else on earth she would be retarded. The best girl would be one that has no problem living by herself most of the time but maybe you could visit weekly or less often, or seasonally and send money and stuff, or rather stuff since what is there to do with money out there.
Actually most of us are only functional in Mongolia when we have the extra material and those of us who can be more globally successful are made of a stuff more like good steel, but to me I consider functional anyone who can live in the traditional circumstances even if I know a lot of these people would never engage with the world at all around here and would be totally dependent. Those of us I consider higher functioning to the point of dealing with the modern world are still hampered by people who think that they have to facilitate us in this or refuse to see our point of view as another valid way of doing things when it is clear that we can't learn how to do things their way, we just get things done.